Certain kinds of restaurants can be a great way to meet women. Hooters, Tilted Kilt, Tight Ends, Twin Peaks, and Bombshells are often called Breastaurants, for obvious reasons.
Harley-Davidson also has many rallies in many of the major cities in the US and abroad. The great thing about the places is you get to see the real women, and check them out in person. The downside, is you don’t know if they are looking for an Arrangement or not.
However, some of them are, or at least are interested in talking about it. Have some class, and if you do decide to speak to one of these women, realize the one’s behind the bar are not going to have time to speak with you. And more importantly, there will be no privacy. This is not something you want to talk about in the presence of everyone around. If you do not know the definition of discreet, then look it up, and learn it.
How you approach these women is very important. You want to come across as a successful, older man that has something to offer a young woman. You do not want to come across as a Creepy Old Man.
If you are the kind of man that had some decent success with the women that you tried to bed when you were younger, the chances are at least decent that you can have some success with these women, a great deal of them will be in there twenties.
If you were a jerk, and could not get laid when you were younger, then not only are you the guy I am not trying to encourage, but you also better have more money than the guy I am trying to reach.
The same thing applies if you were a geek, but being a geek is way better than being a jerk or an asshole. No one likes an asshole.
If you do decide to approach one of these women at a breastaurant, go in alone. Sit at a table, not at the bar. Sitting at the bar is fine if you just want to check out the views, and do some research, but NOT for initiating any contact. There is no privacy at the bar, and a discussion as this should be done in private.
A waitress will have more time to talk to you, but remember, she has a job to do, so keep the conversations from becoming too involved, or too long. Talk with her, compliment her. Be kind, and genuine. If you are neither of these, move on to a different blog.
Perhaps ask her if she will tell you what evenings /days she works so you can come in and see her again. You will have to ask for her section next time, but this can be accommodated much of the time.
At some point, after talking with her, and when she is not very busy, and there is no one else that can hear, you may ask her if she would be interested in discussing an arrangement. She may say yes, and she may say she does not know what you are talking about, and she may say No.
If she says No, or says she does not know what you are talking about, it is better to tell her “Never mind” and drop the subject. If she is telling you the truth, (assume she is, but it may not be true) she is not a woman that has considered entering into an arrangement.
If she does say yes, leave her a number that she can contact you. She may even offer her number to you.