Most of us have hear the terms Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby.
Sugar dating, also called sugaring, is dating practice where a person receives money, gifts, support or other financial and material benefits in exchange for a dating-like relationship. The person who receives the gifts is called a sugar baby, while their paying partner is called a sugar daddy or sugar momma. A sugar daddy is generally a rich older man who spends lavishly on his sugar baby. A sugar baby, meanwhile, is normally an attractive younger woman who can’t afford her lifestyle. The couple will usually establish a financial agreement early on – as well as their boundaries, such as whether or not they’re considering a sexual relationship.
However, things have changed over the years, and now more and more young women are turning to sugaring for extra money. So now you don’t have to be rich to find a young, attractive woman to be with.
Bring on the Splenda Daddy.
A Splenda Daddy is a man who is not rich, but is financially stable, and has some extra money to spend on his baby. A Splenda Daddy can can help to cover tuition, bills, and everyday living expenses. He has a budgeted amount of sugar funds that he allocates to his sugar baby on a weekly or monthly basis.
Women looking for a Splenda Daddy are especially prevalent among students, who are willing to sugar. In 2015, the site SeekingArrangement.com claimed to have over 1.4 million students among its members, comprising 42 percent of registrants. Almost one million of these are in the United States. According to the SeekingArrangement.com website in 2015, 36 per cent of “gifts” received by women using their site was spent on tuition payments, while 23 per cent was used to pay rent. The rest was spent on books, transportation, clothes, and other items. The websites used to negotiate sugar arrangements are technically dating sites. Membership on one site in 2016 was $70 a month for sugar daddies, but free for sugar babies. What happens after the initial date, whether involving sexual or other activities, is between the parties.
Though students make up a large proportion of sugar babies, the practice is not exclusive to students, as it also exists in older age ranges. Described in 2015 as an expanding trend, sugar dating is most prevalent in the United States, followed by Canada, the United Kingdom, and Australia.
Splenda Daddy is a term that I use, but I do not use it around my POTs (Potential or current Sugar Babies) The term has been used in the past usually by Sugar Babies, as a man who wants to be a Sugar Daddy but just does not have the financial means. It was used as derogatory, put down, but after years searching for a way to be with women without suffering major financial and emotional losses from doing so, I took the derogatory description of Splenda Daddy and and flipped the concept on its head. I am not wealthy enough to fly my baby all over the world, and give her unlimited shopping sprees, but I damn sure have enough extra money to help her pay her bills. It has worked for me, and worked well. I help her and she helps me. She gets what she needs, I get what I want. What do I want? Sex with a young pretty woman.
The best part about all of this, as far as I am concerned, is that I am not bound to a wife, or girlfriend that cannot be happy with herself, let alone with me or ANY other man. I can be with a beautiful young woman who APPRECIATES what I have to offer and is willing and able to show me her appreciation in the bedroom. When is the last time you had a young, pretty even beautiful woman willing to fuck you or suck your dick or both with enthusiasm?
Today there is now a whole new world of opportunities for a regular guy. And this is good, because there is also growing number of men who are just sick and tired of being fucked over by women, and looking for another way to fuck women with out having to hand over their balls for the chance that they may get laid once a month.